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A Book Review by Abbe Morrongiello,
a parent to a
teenager with Asperger's:
I am the
mother of a teenager with Asperger’s Syndrome. I have read
many books about Asperger’s Syndrome, but this is the
first book of poetry that I have encountered written by an
Aspie. It explains from an Aspie’s point of view what it
actually feels like wrestling with issues like sensory
overload, social roadblocks, bullying, and depression. My
Aspie son read selected poems, and he strongly identifies
with them.
Although there are many poems about emotional pain, there
are also poems about love, hope, pursuing her passions for
writing and painting, and finding her own laughter.
Michal
writes many poems about the sensory issues that many
Aspies encounter: adverse reactions to loud noises, hugs,
tastes, textures of food and fabrics, and smells. I
enjoyed the humorous poems “Food” and “Noise”.
She also
writes about her difficulties with having a social phobia,
understanding idiomatic expressions and her extreme
discomfort with society. One of my favorite poems in the
book is “The Phone” because I also suffer from what I call
“phone-a-phobia”.
I imagine
that it would be comforting for other Aspies to read
someone else’s personal account of having Asperger's
Syndrome. Perhaps they would discover that someone else
understands them and that they are not alone in their
experiences and feelings. Some of the best poems in the
book are the ones where Michal accepts the Asperger's part
of herself despite all her difficulties.
In addition
to highly recommending this book to Aspies, I recommend it
to parents of Aspies, teachers, and medical professionals.
The poems give an invaluable insight as to what it is like
to live with Asperger’s, to overcome struggles, and to
find your way.
I admire
Michal for having the courage to share some very personal
painful experiences through her poems with the intention
of helping others. The fact that she has risen above these
experiences gives me optimism about my own son’s future.
A Book Review by Jamie Freed,
Director of Adult
Services, AANE
(Asperger's Association of New
England) :
Michal Maoz’s poetry is powerful, honest, direct and
passionate. Her poetry collection, The Alien in Me:
Poetry by a Person with Asperger's Syndrome spans her life
and covers, in detail, her experiences of loss,
alienation, true love, disappointment, fear, appreciation
and powerful self-discovery.
One can imagine that her poetry has served as a pressure
release as she’s navigated the exceptionally choppy waters
of her life.
As a parent of children with Asperger's Syndrome, she
captures the intensity of her love for her sons as well as
the painful challenges of raising them. The section
devoted to her own Asperger's Syndrome which she
discovered while researching her son’s diagnosis is honest
and thorough. It addresses so many of the component parts
that make up Asperger's Syndrome that it could be used as
a guide to explain its facets and accompanying feelings.
With this collection, Maoz takes giant steps toward her
goal of improving the lives of those on the autism
spectrum by providing a clear, unobstructed window into
her own AS world.
In finding her voice through her poetry she speaks for many with AS who
have not yet found theirs.
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